Carm

Carmella N. Distler, 93, of Endwell and a former long time resident of Newark Valley, passed away peacefully on December 12, 2023 surrounded by her family. Born on November 6, 1930, she was a daughter of the late Joseph and Concetta “Lena” (Caggeso) Viglione. Carm’s life was marked by an unwavering dedication to her family, her faith, and her community.

Carm is survived by her devoted children: Robert “Bob” (Wendy) Distler, Mark (Darlene) Distler, John (Kathy) Dister, Caryn (Kurt) Johnson, and Barbara (David) Distler; her cherished grandchildren: Greg, Jenna, Mark, Lauren, Kane, Kyle, and Kaileigh, her great-grandchildren: Rose, Hazel, Jameson, and Quinn. Her siblings: Joseph (Sandy) Viglione, David (Patti) Viglione, and Jenny Morelli. Several nieces, nephews, and cousins also survive. Carm also leaves behind many dear friends from the past and those that she met at Good Shepard Village.

She was predeceased by her loving husband William Distler in 2014, sisters Antoinette and Mary, and brother Micheal.

Embarking on a journey of caring for others early in her life, she graduated from Mercy Hospital School of Nursing as a Registered Nurse. She transitioned to the role of a homemaker and continued to nurture and support her family with the same love and dedication she had shown in her professional life.

Her interests were as varied as they were passionate. Carmella was a familiar face at Newark Valley sporting events, cheering with enthusiasm and pride. Her faith was a cornerstone of her life. She was a devoted member of St. John the Evangelist Church in Newark Valley where she was active member of the Alter-Rosary Society and seldom missed assisting with various church dinners. An avid quilter, she created beautiful works of art that were as warm and comforting as her presence. Carmella also enjoyed playing cards, and hosting luncheons with her friends.

Volunteering was another way Carmella expressed her selfless nature. She gave her time generously, always seeking to make a difference in the lives of others. Her kind and loving spirit was a beacon of light to everyone she met, and her selflessness knew no bounds.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, December 18, 2023 at 11:00a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Church, Newark Valley.  A time of sharing memories and luncheon  will follow mass at 12pm at St. John’s Church Hall.  Burial will be held at a later date in the  Hope Cemetery.  For those wishing, donations can be directed to Lourdes Hospice in memory of Carm. Memories and condolences may also be written in her guest book at macphersonfh.com Caring assistance is being provided by MacPherson Funeral Home, Newark Valley.